Subhechcha Ganguly 
We are glad to inform you that we have an exceptional author with us who has made all her efforts to bring out one of the most undiscussed topics. In her book “ Dear Son, You Can’t Stay Little Always “Author Prachi Sachdev talks about Parenting and brings out a fresh perspective from a male perspective.
Prachi Sachdev is a Book Coach, authorprenuer, and professional content writer with a passion for guiding budding writers to become published authors. Refining her craft with over nine years of experience in producing compelling pieces across genres including academic writing, motivational content, parenting, relationships, and travel, her focus as a book coach centres around discovering your book’s niche and guiding you through to becoming an accomplished author.
Her dedication to the literary world has been recognized with prestigious awards such as the Rashtriya Pratibha Samman – Guiding Light Award (2024) and the Golden Books Award (2023) for her celebrated work, “Dear Son, You Can’t Stay Little Always.” Author of two published books she is focused on self-help books for preteens and teens, aiming to make a meaningful impact in their lives.
When she’s not brainstorming to find the right words, you can find her painting or doodling, searching for her calm in colours and lines. Reach out to her at info@prachisachdev.com
Q1) Prachi, we are so glad to have you here. You have recently received the “Guiding Light Award “ for Rashtriya Pratibha Samman. Tell us your feelings after receiving it.
Ans. Thank you so much for having me. It’s truly an honour to receive the “Guiding Light Award” as part of the Rashtriya Pratibha Samman. This recognition is incredibly humbling and electrifying. This award has instilled in me a deeper sense of responsibility and motivation to continue on my path. I am filled with gratitude as I see this award as an encouragement to further my efforts in impacting lives.
Q2) Your write-ups are also featured in the newsletter featuring Bollywood Celebrity Anil Kapoor. How does it feel to get such a recognition?
Ans. It’s incredibly gratifying to see my write-up featured in a newsletter alongside an esteemed figure like Anil Kapoor who is known for his versatility and enduring appeal. I was overwhelmed to see my kids’ excitement when they received the copy of the newsletter and found my article next to Mr. Kapoor’s. This moment is a cherished acknowledgment that will inspire me for years to come.
Q3) Everyone talks about the female perspective. What inspired you to talk about and bring this fresh perspective to your book?
Ans. “Growing up I heard men joking about women; usually, the jokes were centred around the wives- a species declared impossible to understand. I never got the joke in the mockery. “They were hateful and disrespectful statements openly made at family and social gatherings. Times changed, and so did the method of ridiculing women. Verbal mockery found its way into our smartphones. “Who was to be blamed?” I often thought. The only answer I could think of was the default system of how boys were raised. Societal expectations have historically confined men to a narrow emotional bandwidth, indirectly shifting their focus to misunderstanding and disrespecting women. For generations, men have not been allowed to feel vulnerable which led to bottling emotions under the veil of masculinity. The use of humor to belittle the other gender through words has only aided harmful stereotyping.
When my son was born, I realized I didn’t want to raise him like the boys were raised generation after generation. So, with an understanding that though not all men are the same and individual paths to change are deeply personal, we can contribute to an environment that nurtures growth and self-reflection for those who are open, the idea of this book took shape. This book is dedicated to my son and young boys who feel misunderstood, unheard or unseen. During my research, I spoke to a group of young boys and men (different age groups), and I realized, that the only coping mechanisms that are taught to boys are statements like “Man up!” or “Don’t cry like a girl!” or “You are the bread earner, so get your act together”. We don’t let them vent out, they are not allowed to embrace their feminine side or show they are vulnerable.
Whenever I look at my son, I see a sensitive, caring, and understanding young man. However much I try, I won’t be able to keep him cocooned in the warmth of my motherly love and care forever. He will have to face the world sooner or later. So, I decided to write this book “Dear Son, You Can’t Stay Little Always” as a guide to self-realization and self-growth. If you are a teenager looking to find the courage to break the old patterns and create a fulfilling life for yourself, this book is for you!
Q4) What is the one thing you suggest to new parents to remember during Parenting?
Ans. I believe parenting is a deeply personal journey, where every parent strives to do their best for their child. One key piece of advice I offer to new parents is to be mindful of their actions. Your child learns more from observing you than from listening to you. For instance, the way you handle conflicts, show empathy towards others, or even manage your daily tasks sets a strong example for your child. It’s essential to be consistent in your actions because children internalize what they see regularly. Remember, it’s natural to slip up sometimes. What matters most is how you acknowledge these moments and demonstrate learning and growth. Parenting is not just about raising your child but also about learning and growing in the process.
Q5) Tell the readers a bit about your book and attach the link for purchase.
Ans. “Dear Son, You Can’t Stay Little Always” is a book articulated for teen boys. Designed to break gender stereotypes, and challenge traditional paradigms and rigid frameworks of masculinity, this book is a guide for young boys to help them cope with life pressures. The book focuses on pervasive issues like self-prioritization, peer pressure, domestic violence, body shaming, effective communication, and surviving in a digital era. For all those teens who are ready to explore their emotions, embrace vulnerability without feeling the burden of guilt, and transform their lives, this book is your path to understanding and self-growth.
Link to my book: https://tinyurl.com/5n978t5j
Q6) For people who want to start their journey on writing – what are the few suggestions you want to give them?
Ans. Every good story deserves a reader. As you begin your writing journey, know that your words have the potential to inspire readers across the globe. While you may want to explore your gifts as a writer, here are a few suggestions as you pave your way:
Read. Read every day. It will not only increase your knowledge but will also ignite your creativity.
Write regularly. Consistency is the key. Keep aside time to write every day, even if it is just a few words.
Join the readers and writers group. Actively participate in discussions related to the subject you are interested in writing. Seek support, guidance, and valuable feedback from fellow writers.
Be persistent and never give up on the story or an idea you believe in.
Constructive criticism is invaluable. Be open to new perspectives and fresh ideas.
Never stop learning new things. Upskill yourself to stay updated in your genre.
Remember, the stories have the power to provoke thoughts, motivate others, and touch a million hearts. So, be authentic in your writing. To all the budding writers out there, I wish you luck and success on your journey. May your words inspire and bring about the change you wish to see!
